How to support someone experiencing abuse

  • Put victims safety first
  • Don’t talk about things in front of the abuser, or give out materials, send emails, texts, etc. with information that the abuser could find
  • Listen more then talk
  • Don’t assume you know what they need
  • Check in often
  • If they decide to stay, try not to judge
  • Learn about services in our community and have the information ready
  • Each person is the expert on their life: respect their choices
  • When listening to disclosures:
    • Take a breath
    • Clarify any limits on confidentiality
    • Ensure privacy
    • Stay quiet and listen
    • Monitor your body language and facial expressions
    • Monitor the other person’s body language and facial expressions
    • Clarify next steps
    • Debrief with someone if necessary
2021-04-15T05:09:46-04:00April 14, 2021|
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